Comments on: Become proactive in social situations. http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/ (The West Virginia Blogger) Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:45:15 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Bucky http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-959 Bucky Sun, 06 May 2007 22:32:39 +0000 http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-959 No, anonymity works well, especially if you don't want to personally offend. No, anonymity works well, especially if you don’t want to personally offend.

]]> By: iio http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-954 iio Sun, 06 May 2007 18:17:54 +0000 http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-954 Thanks for your suggestions. Shes actually a nice lady. Would it be bad if just sent her an anonymous note? Thanks for your suggestions. Shes actually a nice lady. Would it be bad if just sent her an anonymous note?

]]> By: Bucky http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-875 Bucky Tue, 01 May 2007 10:24:23 +0000 http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-875 I have a couple of different takes on your situation. If the co-worker is a nice lady, you may want to ease into a conversation about where she got her done and lead up you ultimately saying something like, "I hope you didn't have to pay much for that". Expect her to take offense anyway. If the lady is not a nice person, a general <i>"point & laugh"</i> followed by a very loud "That is the <i>WORST</i> haircut I have ever seen" should do the trick. There is a possibility you could be fired for harassment, but at least you don't have to look at that hair anymore! I have a couple of different takes on your situation. If the co-worker is a nice lady, you may want to ease into a conversation about where she got her done and lead up you ultimately saying something like, “I hope you didn’t have to pay much for that”. Expect her to take offense anyway.

If the lady is not a nice person, a general “point & laugh” followed by a very loud “That is the WORST haircut I have ever seen” should do the trick. There is a possibility you could be fired for harassment, but at least you don’t have to look at that hair anymore!

]]> By: iio http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-873 iio Tue, 01 May 2007 09:55:26 +0000 http://www.bloggingwv.com/become-proactive-in-social-situations/#comment-873 I'm all for letting people know about boogers and downed zippers. But, how about if a coworker came to work with the worst haircut. Should I be honest and tell her it looks like a two-year old cut her hair? Or should I just smile and say, "nice"? I’m all for letting people know about boogers and downed zippers. But, how about if a coworker came to work with the worst haircut. Should I be honest and tell her it looks like a two-year old cut her hair? Or should I just smile and say, “nice”?

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